Interesting day yesterday. I had two men calling me last night.
One was my H and the other was the OW's exH. Hmmmm...if it was a movie I could have both of them and leave the ho without anyone. I'd also make it really dramatic and let her live in a box under a bridge.
H came over yesterday afternoon to look at my leaky roof. While he was here he also cleaned out my gutters. When he left my house he was going to his deer camp. He told me he would call later. After he left I took both of my DD's out to eat and then we had to make a Wal-Mart run.
DD20 had a few friends over. They stayed outside on the screened in back porch. One of the young men came in to talk to me. I think he sees me as a mother figure, he always ends up staying in the house with me more than being outside. He has had rough time recently his parents have had some marital problems. We don't talk about them though.
H did end up calling. He asked what I was doing. I said "I'm sitting in the den talking to Steve and DD17. In a very surprised voice he said "Who?" I said, "DD20's friend, you've met him." He said, "Oh, okay." By the way, I have an exbf named Steve, that was calling me when he found out that H and I had separated...so I guess he thought it was him.
After I got off the phone with H the phone rang and it was OW's exH. I didn't answer the phone though, so I'm not sure what he wanted.
Not bad for a PMA! It's kinda fun knowing I have a secret from my H for a change!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon