HOpe- do not worry about backsliding.... it is expected and I've done the same... every now and then we have to show we care I think ... feelings are better than anger or something.
T2L - thinking of you today.. I read in DR that we need to make small goals and chart them... him saying "goodnight" is huge so take note so you know that you are making progress... so hard with our H having OW in the picture i know but try try try to separate it when we can... work on why they left, or why they weren't fully happy and make the changes we can..
My H keeps talking to me like usual now that I'm being friendly -I wonder if I'm being too friendly and making it easy.. calls me yesterday to talk about his golf game for 15 mins then last night about his job ..... I wonder sometimes if he doesn't get this type of conversation with OW .... I think I need to detact a bit more
Not sure what I'm going to write in his b-day card.... I have a cake being delievered today ... it is in the shape of a Dallas Cowboy hat - we are huge Cowboy fans... he'll love it but he then has to take it with him to OW house b/c he isn't leaving until tomorrow morning out of town. Wonder what she'll think
more updates tonight depending what happens tomorrow... he is suppose to be looking at an apartment today.. finally get out of the OW house... what a joke!!!
God can deliever miracles so keep praying and he'll answer... believing is everything!!!!!
can't wait for more updates.... catching a flight in a few back on later when kids are down..
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
