50/50 and not a second less is my goal. I'm a real laid back sort of guy, i can usually take whatever is thrown at me. hit me, kick me, no big deal - i've been through worse than anything anyone can give me now. I've spent years in hell, this is a cake walk.
BUT, if she tries to pull something using my daughter, she'll get to see the part of me i've always kept locked up. if she wants ugly i can get mighty ugly. if she wants nice-nice, then thats what she'll get.
but i will not waiver with my daughter.
she's queen of the sympathy stories, all her friends are so sad for her, so sorry she's had to live in such misery for oh so long. of course, she never mentions the OM to them, Oh No, that would negate the poor poor me stories right off.
and Arthur, you're so right about her keeping on her course, regardless of reality. i think that there was a part of her that wanted to work on the R, but because she'd told so many people her 'pity me' stories she couldnt back track. she'd never accept her role in this, not now.
and i'm fine with that. you reap what you sow.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
