Hang in there Ken. Your W (as you say) has probably realised the consequences of not having D more than you more than anything it does for D. Be strong and if your L thinks it will be ok, stick at it.
My W is similar, anything I suggest as a flexible solution or a compromise is a definite no, but often she will return a week later or something and offer me exactly what I offered her and think it's a great idea. For example, she was talking about not doing mediation as we might not agree much, but I was like, well, whatever we agree we save time on sols to sort. She didn't hear that, then a week later she comes to me saying, yeah, lets do mediation and L (her friend) says whatever we agree we don't need to do through the sols...I just smiled and said, cool, ring and organise then....LMAO at some of this batchitt crazy stuff.
Oh, I also mentioned we need to agree household stuff as part of a settlement, like me needing all furniture etc and she was like...what....You really are in cloud cukoo land...ok then...bye. lol
The silly thing is, I believe these actions are in return of the way we are now and moving on and them still unable to accept their part in it. They just keep going rather than sit back and stop being so stubborn. got to still justify that we made them have A and see OM etc.
GL buddy. Just laugh it off and know we all go through similar
