I think you're doing good ndsmhelp. I wish I had that with my W. Mine wants nothing of the sort except for me to act like her BFF.
Hopefully, with your strong DB'ing and the fact that you guys are interacting so well; you may succeed here and be an inspiration for many.
God Bless
MC Thanks for the pat...still think I have a lot to learn when it comes to DB'ing, though.
Although I am completely committed to treating my wife as she deserves to be, there is much more, personally, that needs to be addressed.
I still feel like, even though I am giving her the man she deserves, there are other things that I am neglecting.
If the sitch stays the same and we continue to progress positively, I think it will be easier for me to concentrate on "our" future....with the hope that she follows along.
As much as I have changed in my treatment of her, and my attitude in general, my goal is to show her more personal growth and hope that she will realize that we can have that life together we always wanted, but were never able to set goals together to reach....because of my behavior and our relationship.
