I have been travelling this week and just now catching up on things..... Before I left, W told me to call anytime.....since old habits are hard to break, I deciided to call (left a message) when I got to the hotel and settled in. She called back several minutes later and we had a nice chat....kind of weird. Almost like old times minus the ILYs. Anyhow yesterday morning D7 called to wake me up....that was nice. I did not ask to speak to mom although I heard her in the background....I guess my DBing kicked in. I remember roughly a year ago on my FLA. golf trip that W really had a tough time. Oddly enough I have a hunch she is struggling again....she made her bed.... I was out for supper last night with a colleague and he began to speak about his W. You know the usual guy talk....well maybe not ususal....he is not happy. I just did not have the same perspective as I used to. The only words of advice that I could muster up were we all need to find a balance and sometimes we do not know what we have until it is gone....he must of thought I was a pansy.
