LE - nice to see you visiting this thread.. I do post on both as I get different people visiting both threads...
Here is an update... Not sure the dinner is going to happen now... I was prepared for him to back out and guess what happened he did.
We talked a few times today and tonight I just doubled check that we were all on for dinner tomorrow.. He said No probably not... didn't really go into details and I didn't push.. (remember on two different occassions he said he would and with excitment)
When I asked him he sounded all depressed... I then asked if he was OK as he sounded different than earlier or a few days ago especially regarding dinner.. He said he did little dinner with the girls tonight... that they are so young they don't know... It's not a big deal he said. I mentioned that is fine. Of course I take this that he doesn't want to do this b/c of OW. Boy I love the loyalty he is giving her.. Jack A%$#! I would have loved this respect in our marriage... I know I could be reading into it. I said I had the gifts from the girls and He said he'll be at the house when I get home to hang out and do gifts from the girls....
He said he doesn't want to go to Houston either (he has business Friday there and his family is going to be there for the weekend) first time he'll be around his Mom, Dad and brother's family since this has all happened.... he hasn't really even talked to them about what is happening.. should be an interesting weekend for him..
He mentioned he was pissed about a promotion he had talked to his boss about today and he started going off on his job to me.. Sometimes I wonder why I'm giving my ear to him but I am trying to play nice... as I know being an angry biattchh doesn't work either..
So overall he sounded a little depressed.... I don't think I'm going to write anything in his birthday card... I have no emotion to give him right now... we'll see how I feel tomorrow.
AAAAHHHHHHH - gosh I want to scream!!!
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
