Sandi - You're husband sounds a lot like my father in law who is a midwest farmer. Very set in his ways, pays cash for everything, won't buy anything unless its on the clearance rack, knows exactly what he likes, doesn't like, and does pretty much the same thing EVERY SINGLE DAY. I get frustrated sometimes just spending a weekend with him! Couldn't imagine living with him.

I can tell from your last post that you care about your husband a lot. I know you want more from him and you can and should keep striving for that. Please stop talking about how old you guys are or how long you've been married. You are here today and all you can control is what happens going forward. Try something new just for kicks and see what happens. Just don't give up.

Even though I'm going down this path of divorce, I still hold hope that something will change.

We'll talk soon. Edge

Me-44, W-45
Together-25 yrs, Married-21 yrs
D-17,S-15,D-13,S-10
ILYBNILWY Bomb: 10/2007
Status: Divorce Mediation, Still under same roof
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