What got me was D9 quickly spoke up and said no (S5 name)she is at home. This worries me a little, maybe she is a little embarrassed about what her mom did, I'll have to keep an eye on D9 - I don't know if I should sit down and talk to her about it.
That sounds like a good idea to me, just be casual and ask questions when you're cooking or playing with her or doing something together. Karen