I gonna skip the details on this. Basically we had back to back IC today. We agreed to see the IC alone and then together.

Basically my W cannot make a decision right now and is to confused. On and on.

Then she left and talked with the IC. The IC said she is worse then she was five months ago. IC said that W had deep psychological problems from her past and would be unable to get past everything until she gets these fixed. That she is running on emotional responses and the bad perspective that she has gotten from her past. IC said I could wait. I said I did not know how many months I could wait. IC said with her problems it was going to take at least a year, probably more to fix.

So that only leaves one choice. I hope she does continue with therapy and gets herself the help she needs. I can't hate her. I do feel sorry for all the the things that happened to her and made her this way.

Last edited by yenko69; 10/09/08 12:03 AM.
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