I think you are doing well. I know it seems hard to stay positive when your h is being so confusing. But it seems like you are staying strong. I think that it is good that he wants to do the 2 weeks. It does seem like he thinks it will have to go from this to perfect in two week and if not then it's over but that is probably not what he really means. He sounds intelligent and probably knows that it will not happen overnight. I like your idea of going out every other night or so, just to get space and to give him space. It will help with GAL too I assume. I think you are going to have a rocky couple of weeks as he is all over the map right now but you can do it. Look how far you've come already!
Keep it up darlin! Got my fingers crossed for you!