Dan, I always appreciate your POV. It really helps to see a different perspective. I think you're right. My h, in his own mind, has rationalized the way he treats me. It makes no sense to me, and probably never will. But, he's the one that has to live with himself, so why not? He REALLY hates it BTW, when I call him on things. Telling me I have a victim mentality. Coming from a cop, he should know better.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
