1. If you ever sleep on the couch because she made you after you didn't initiate right, then you deserve to sleep on the couch.
2. Next time tell her you'll initiate if she can get you hard. If she doesn't, go to sleep. If she does, look at her like a ravenous wolf looks at a newborn fawn and tell her, "Now I'm going to f*ck you with this." Then do it.
3. Don't initiate when she tells you to or how she tells you to. Initiate when you want to and how you want to. If "how you want to" looks like this: "Honey, will you please have sex with me tonight?", then you have some self-work to do. Think about how you *really* want to initiate and do that.
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