No, I agree. the positive signs are mostly her looking at me and that the OM mayb on the way out. Again, nothing definitive, but indications from people who know. I have read all I can about MLC, affairs and the like. you are dead on in your assessment and it is also what i believe. In my therapy session, it will be the end of the relationship with OM that she will look the hardest at me. Again, I know she must come forward about the affair and seek some type of counseling so tha tI am not back here once she does come back. that is why my DB'ng is all about me right now and heavy. It is also important that I am doing everything right, right now!!! If my therapist and opther counselors I have spoken with are correct, it will be her impression of me now that will either delay or speed up her willingness to come back. If she can se what I am now, and believe what she sees and hears about me, then I will be in a positive window.
that's why it is so important to me to make sure I am not doing anything wrong. It is also important, even in the DR book, that I look at things such as favors and the like as positive signs to see how i react. Trust me, when the OM thing is over, I have been told that I will know about it. I may even be the first to know about it. You and I seem to have a strong connection becaue of the similarities. I pray for you to find your happiness with someone. I pray mine is with her. I am strongest to bear any burden right now. I don't think I could have 9 weeks ago. Keep in touch with me.
