"I do get the idea from listening to you though, that you seem to think it's your decision to R. It's not. At this point there's a lot that would have to happen before we ever think about starting a new R, but starting D procedings is painfully premature.
You gaining more control , and importantly letting H know.
This made me laugh
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How did you find out? You call and blindside me like this when I was just inching along, great.
Now just who is blindsiding who here ??? Your H is like my W , subscribes to the theory that the best defence is an offence , no matter how ridiculous.
You are happier and more settled because you have control of your life now. What ever happens things will work out for you , you are the stronger person in your M and always have been. Your H knows that.
