OK, BBJ. I am only about half way through and I need a break. Man you do have energy!!! First I'd say break it up into more than one letter. I read up to the end of How do I show my love? That is enough for the first letter.
Changes I would make. I would change the start to a compliment to him. Not you professing your love. Say something nice about something he has done lately.
The second part I read, How do I show my love? I think that is where the problem is. You are a show my love athlete. He is a show my love wimp. I love your description of how you feel about showing your love, but keep in mind this is where you show him up bigtime. Somewhere in there, maybe a little humility would be nice. And this is definitely a letter you need a response to. You NEED him to tell you how he shows his love. Because that is what you are missing. If he could explain how he thinks he shows love, maybe you would feel better about the marriage. Soooo, ask him to respond to this one. Don't accept, "I'm trying", get language as detailed as yours. OK, now I can go back and read more.
