The truth is, I can't afford to live in the house with only MY salary. H has been paying all the bills here and living with his parents for almost a year now. Moving out is my only option at this point. The kids and I can move in with my mom and I can save up some money, pay off my car, and save up for a house.

I HAVE noticed, that when I DO what he wants (even towards divorce...picking up paperwork from attorney, etc...) he seems to get scared.

Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."