Just a quick note of congratulations on your wonderful new life. Sharing the positive stuff help others to know that there is life after the D, but not just life, GOOD LIFE as well. Your trip sounded absolutely wonderful and only inspires me to continue believing that could be me one day (well, I mean with someone of my own, not me and "B" )
Aside from the occasional blow ups, it sounds like you have peace and that is great. It seems that many of us have the periodic conflict with our X and maybe it will always be that way. We WILL disagree on things but that does not give us the right to be disagreeable. You have a great response in telling X he no longer has the right to talk to you the way he occasionally does. (My X blew up recently but it was through email and I did not respond, things went back to being calm between us very quickly)
We cannot let these people steal our joy, right?
Anyway just wanted to congratulate you again on you new life and encourage you to keep the updates coming, it gives others who want to receive it, encouragement and hope for the future.
Blessings! (p.s. Fight On!)
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