Thanks for the feedback. So karlah, you think I don't need to go dark? I don't really communicate with her anyway as she doesn't live at home. Tgone, thanks for your sitch. I have alot of the same but stopped pursing after 4 weeks. I will take all this advice as I need to really get things going. Unfortunately, I need OM out of the way before she will consider. There are signs it may be failing, but who knows. I will have to move forward and watch,