Hey Marisol and T2L {{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}, twinhope and JGrind, TxMom or any other visitor to this stich~~~
Marisol, I know it is tough when you hate your job. I went through that some years back and was miserable, well the decision was to move 2000 miles away 2 years ago and guess what now my H walked out on me! sometimes we get what we wish for (a bad joke -- smile) but truly hang in there and try to make the best of it. As for the OW I also dwell and obsess about her but then it only makes me worse. I am trying to step back and let God continue to work on my H and just work on myself. It is tough but it does give me some peace. The toughest is being at work and having both of them here but I have been working to block it.

T2L, You are small and mighty with a big mission. We are all with you in prayer and spirit. Thanks for the message for my D15. She will LOVE it. She likes checking in over my shoulder when I am online here. It makes her happy that we are all planning and working on ourselves. Your H is being pulled in and he does not even now it. All those hours he is spending with the family is time not spent with OW. Amazing.
Have a great time at DisneyLand "where dreams come true", try and stay for the fireworks they are always so romantic. Does your H go on rides? Make sure you share at least one or two with him and just sorta slide into his space. Let him know what he is missing! It will be a wild ride!

OK -- who is GALing?? I have not since Thursday because of this darn flu. But today I am taking D15 to watch her Dad play flag football at 5 and then he is taking her out to eat (if she decides to go), so I am going to get a pedicure and go to library. At least it is something for today. I need to get moving -- I want every day to count. Later I will set up a few goals for the next week. Lets keep this rolling and keep each other motivated.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09