STBXW just called and offered to meet me half-way when I need to drop off #1 son after baseball practice tonight.

I thought about it and suggested she just meet us at our (son and mine) pizza place after practice and she could share in our "Weekly Father/Son Post Baseball Practice Pizza Ritual" and then take him home with her.

"No, I have other plans but thanks" - Her (Kinda down)
"OK then, I'll have him home after dinner" - Me (Cheerfully)

1 minute later my phone rings again

"It took me a whole 1 minute to reconsider...what time should I be at the pizza joint?" - Her

(Boggle)

Now, my counselor would call this "a small step in the right direction" and my friend Kline would call this "causing yourself more grief".

I think they both are right.

H: 38
W: 36
S: 8
S: 5
M: 16
Bomb: 8/25/08
OM: 9/21/08
EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...)
Sep: 9/21/08
D Filed 9/23/08
My Situation