Keeping the lawyers out of it is a great idea, and you're right about filing being cheap. Most people don't know that. My W didn't at first, then filed quickly when she found out. She thought the same things you were thinking, that a spouse's bad behavior can change a judge's mind on dividing of assets or even custody. Nope. We went through the 60 day waiting divided everything up, signed everything, but she never turned it in.
Be sure and keep your changes going, never know what could happen from here. Check Michelle's thread for more evidence of that
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
