God give me the patience and the strength...7

[WCW]

I am not trying to be antagonistic, but I am trying to understand.

MG - Why is Bworls advice good for toh and not you?

toh's H is at his own place not living with an ow and may not even have ow anymore. toh and her H have sex.
Your H clearly lives with ow, you and he have sex.

MLC/WAS all have to go thru this on their own time, if we choose we try and support them as best we can until we reach a point that we cannot do it any longer.