P.S. The last link above (from the Taken in Hand website) is one that --> MY WIFE SENT TO ME <-- last spring, when she was initially trying to get the point across to me that my overly "Nice Guy" approach to our relationship, both in and out of hte bedrrom, was a turn-off to her.
LIke Newton, that apple falling on my head woke me up to a whole new way of looking at things....
-- B.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007
