Thus, I gave the ever so slight push needed to let the hilarity ensue.
Lola, here is some advice I was given from a different context on how to behave. Do things for your own amusement. Express, not impress. So, whatever you do, do it as an expression of who you are, not because you are trying to impress someone.
The more I try to live this sentiment, the more I find that life is a joy and well worth living.