Keep your faith, lis.

It wasn't God that put you where you are right now. It was the temptations of the Devil and your wife falling into them that did. Her free will.

But then, Job always comes to mind.

Things happen for a reason. Try not to make the wife out to be evil. She does a good job of that on her own. Some of your actions lead them to choose. They already know who the rock is, just as mine do. Have to be careful with that. The kids don't need to know EVERYTHING. Just be there for them, comfort them if need be.

Be dad. This has already brought you so much closer to them than you ever could have imagined, hasn't it? Makes you wonder about the things that you were missing. I know it makes me think about it. Now I know how truly blessed I am.

Last edited by hopeful4her; 10/08/08 04:04 PM.
Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."