Good morning ya'll. How is everyone? I love the forums. It's going to be strength to all of us over this holiday season.
Well tomorrow is Disneyland with H and kids. My Plan A is going well, trying to stay focused and not look at the outward actions or what is being said. HE has also agreed to accompanying us to pumpkin patch next friday and carving them the night before Halloween. HE will also be here at the house on Sunday for sons actual bday with a few church friends. I'm working hard girls. It's difficult but I feel like at least having a plan is helping me find strength. And I truly feel God has led me to this route. I hope you all can get the book. I learned a lot about my self and determined areas where I might have created an excuse for the affair(though I refuse to accept blame) and can really grow as a person. I think Marisol if your not ready to throw in the towel then don't the ball is in your court, there is no shame in wanting to give it a try. Most people give up and throw in the towel with out a fight or stand. I think it's admirable what all of us are doing. And if at some point we feel released to move forward we'll know. I have told all my friends and even my Pastor that I know people want to me divorce him but I can't I don't have that in my heart. My pastor says to me, don't listen to anyone. They do not have to live out the reminder of your life or the consequences of it so you follow your heart and let God lead you. So until I have it in my heart I will not do it. Hope3343, Thanks for checking in on me. Hello hope3343 Daughter!! Whoot whoot! Tell your daughter I am so happy she enjoys reading the thread with you. Tell her I said your going to make it no matter what happens and that God has great plans for her future and if she can trust him for her life even through this painful time he's going to bless her greatly. Don't give up on her self and talk to your mom every time you feel down. It helps release things and if you can't talk then give mom hugs it'll help you too. I want to share my myspace page with her. tell her to go to EDITED - NOT ALLOWED. It has some music on it I've recorded. I think she'll like it. she can listen to it all but tell her to be sure to listen to Straight to the Top. Actually we all can listen to it. I was inspired to write it and record it. Jgrind, twinhope how are you guys? We're thinking about you all.
So my fellow marriage savers, how is your GAL going? I know i push it a lot but I know that i can slack in this so I force my self to keep GAL'ing. This month I will be taking 2 different Salsa Classes, one on the 18th and one on the 26th. I wish you guys could go try one. You will have so much fun and laugh and burn calories. what I love about it is it's creative dancing but not nasty and dirty since it's a part of the ballroom dancing. My daughter 17 is going to try to do it too. It's huge now with teenagers. Anyways girls please don't neglect your GALing. Its so important for your spouses to see you living because they fully intend for you to follow them like a puppy dog and stop living. It'll stump them because why should you be doing something fun instead of crying and not living. Well I'll be back maybe tonight but if I don't my comrades tomorrow is Disneyland to I'll be gone all day and night so I will jump on Friday morning with all the juicy details...hee hee. Goal: have fun, be happy, confident and get a hug! Cover me I'm going in.....
