I am with you on the struggle. My K's are a little older and I decided that I would not lie to them. I have told them that I do not like what is happening and this is not what I want - I believe in our family and am committed to that.
Is that wrong? I am sure some will say it is because the K's then have to decide... but I am not in favour of my K's thinking that neither parent had the guts to stand up and fight for what is right.
I may burn in h3ll some day because I am perhaps making W out to be the evil one, but she made her bed and now must lie in it.
My signature phrase sums it up!
Take care and be strong! Your K's need that.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.