Don't get me wrong. I take advice. Just like everyones sitch is different, I have to weigh everyones advice. Maybe mold it to my sitch.
I NEED advice. Thats part of why I'm here. Not saying that I don't care what anyone HERE thinks. Far from it. I'll take the lumps as much as I'll take the praise. I give my honest thoughts here, I give my honest opinions to others and I expect it FROM others to me.
I absolutely expect a long haul. Always have. Until she pulls the trigger or oversteps a boundary and I have to.
I don't constantly think about her, but I have my days. Don't we all? I've detached myself from her. I think a pull back is in order, but your right, dub. How long I can do it is the question.
Like karen said on jeffs thread, take my journey day by day and let God lead me where He wants. Maybe I'm trying to manipulate too much. God may be WANTING me to move on down the road. I can't believe that he would be trying to test me so much with all the people he keeps puting in my path.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
