you do sound like a superstar! I love how you handled her visit in the morning. Perfect! I am sure her mind is reeling.
I think that you should invite her to the fair- casually as suggested above. It is a chance to interact and DB, and in the event that she is just too silly to work on your M and you end up D, I think it would be good if you can still interact well together for the sake of your kids.
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!