Like I said before.. it WILL be painful, most likely, but all you can do is see what happens. And remember that what he SAYS in front of you vs. what he's feeling/thinking may be different. In our joint session my H was absolutely sure he was "done." By the time he met with her individually and really hashed out he felt, he wasn't so sure.
I hope it goes well and that you like Kristine as much as I did!
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread