She was over at the house this morning to let the maid in and to put out Halloween decorations...in a house she doesn't live in and she wants to sell ASAP. I had just returned from my jog and was looking GREAT in my compression shirt (if I say so myself). 40 pounds lighter than I was 45 days ago and the weight lifting has started to show results.
She saw on my calendar that son and I are going to the fair, and I could tell she was thinking about asking to go with but I still didn't invite her. Last week she was under the (mistaken) impression that she would get an invite to my family's day at the fair (she goes every year, it's a blast), but I told her today that her first impression on the matter was correct, she would not be welcome with them. Sorry!
What is it with the WAW and her ignorance to the destruction she causes in EVERYONE'S lives?
Anyway, I'd still like some input on how to handle this. Invite her to the fair with me and son or no?
PS: I gently held her arm and snuck a kiss on the cheek and a soft tap on the butt before I walked out the door for work. "Have a great day and don't work too hard!" I said in a cheerful voice. She was taken aback and a bit shocked I think. Here is the good man she hurt and betrayed terribly just as happy as a clam. I KNOW this just makes her feel more guilty SOMEWHERE in that foggy head of hers.
It felt great!
H: 38 W: 36 S: 8 S: 5 M: 16 Bomb: 8/25/08 OM: 9/21/08 EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...) Sep: 9/21/08 D Filed 9/23/08 My Situation
