Texas,

Not only is it weird, it is very much unfair in my eyes. What exactly is the point of this, " game ? " What happens at the end of the year, and why was a year the magic number? And why is it that if you do it " wrong " per say do you have to sleep on the couch ?? All this did for me was confuse me.

In my opinion, this won't work because eventually you will become very frustrated and its just an impossible demand. With no communication how on earth can you figure out what is right or wrong in " HER " eyes, and how can it progress? Unless she expects you to become a mind reader I think it will crash and burn. One or both of you will become so frustrated that it more then likely will end badly and maybe even with her giving up completely and saying, : " well, you couldn't do it , so forget it "

What would happen if you said the same to her ? Sorry, I just think its very unfair and I don't know how you can do this especially if she won't tell you what she wants or likes ect...... that the only way you will find out is a night on the couch.

I think, and this is me, but for a sexual relationship to get better between the 2 of you, there has to be some sort of communication. I don't see that for you. It sounds more like an ultimatum with no clear anything.........

What happens if you don't? Couch it is?? Or the "game" ends? Looks like you may have to talk, unless you want to play the game, but as I said before, I really see there being no great ending to it. 365 days is a long time, and really I think its unfair also that you'd have to go thru so many rejections in the process. What does that help ?

My thoughts for now... sorry your going thru this

Last edited by diane74; 10/08/08 02:31 PM.

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