Donna,

Reading the list you posted a while back, I'm trying to figure where the good parts of the marriage were. Porn in the ceiling? You went a year between haircuts? YOU didn't clean the house? Was he paralyzed or just disinterested in a clean house? For years, I was up to my elbows in the toilets on Saturday! Weird sex acts? Couldn't sit at the computer wihtout feeling guilty? I think you have rose colored Hubble telescope glasses on!