Originally Posted By: nw626
May be I am stressing her out again.
The last e-mail that I had from her yesterday, she shows the anger that I have ended her affair, spying on her and destroyed the other M's family by talking with OM's wife.


Stressing her out??? Isn't she the one that had the affair and moved out with your son?? Don't worry about her stress levels. Focus on yourself and reducing YOUR stress.

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My plan right now is no more e-mails, texts and calls to her from me, even I really want to talk to our son.
Since I was bugging her everyday about talking to our son, will this move counts as 180?


NO, NO, NO!!! Call to talk to you son. Period. Call everynight to just say goodnight. Don't use it as an oppurtunity to talk to wife. Just ask for son, say goodnight, Daddy loves you and then hang up the phone. 2 1/2 is pretty young to have much phone conversation, but you do need to stay relevant in his life.


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