I have put together a short term plan and would like some advice. It sounds severe to me, but after reading the book and a couple of the stories, mayb it isn't.
I am doing her brakes tomorrow night, should take me an hour total then I have to go to the gym to do some stress relief. Anyway, my plan as of last night when she left is to go dark again. I will stay that way until next Thursday. I want to send her a text stating we should file for divorce. I am seeing some signs as I have indicated in the posts, but it is hard to see which direction they are moving right now. I think if I give it a week, maybe i can see it more clearly. I think my mini bomb a week ago had some kind of effect on her. Is this to drastic at this point in time? Should I try being dark till the end of the month then drop this kind of bomb. would it have more effect? My original plan (last night) was to do it end of the month after I observed things while getting my projects done and being dark for a longer period of time. After her brakes and my talk with her about her car ins bill, I don't have to discuss anything with her. My youngest D birthday is next weekend. I will guarantee you she will be broke. I don't think she will contact me about it or what I am doing for her. I am going to make plans with my daughter to do something for her birthday.
Look forward to your responses. Yard is looking great by the way. My middle D came over for coffee this morning and said it looks different but good withthe pool gone. My son is coming over tonight and the rest will be finished. doing these projects really gets me going. Can't wait to get this project off the list and move on. I have put together my goals with her. Not sure if I di it right. I put what i refer to as the ulitimate goal, then steps to that goal, and baby steps for the steps, and possible signs that things are heading in the right direction. Is this format correct? the list is long......
