Wife have moved out with my son..........now what

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My wife never called last night.
I texted her and called her, no answer.
I wasn't able to talk to our son again.
Looks like I will not able to until Friday when I am done with my business trip. This is so frustrated. I wasn't even planning to talk to her. May be I am stressing her out again.
The last e-mail that I had from her yesterday, she shows the anger that I have ended her affair, spying on her and destroyed the other M's family by talking with OM's wife.

My plan right now is no more e-mails, texts and calls to her from me, even I really want to talk to our son.
Since I was bugging her everyday about talking to our son, will this move counts as 180?

Is this a good plan?

Please advice....