I do appreciate al the advice and suppot I recieve. I am currently in counseling. My D (10yrs) has no idea why we are living seperated. She told me yesterday she beliefs mom moves back home. She just needs a break from the arguing DAD. It put a tea in my eye and I began to ralize how this is affecting our child.I try to save my marriage but my wife is not interested in anything I say so right now I just sit back and pray she will realize what she is doing. Its hard but I do take it day by day and try to get my life some how back in order.