Hi T Who recommended Passionate Marriage to you? I'm only about 1/10th of the way through reading it and I'm finding it really tough - its so challenging!! I normally am a total book worm and love self-help style books. But this is so much to digest, and it feels like its too hard - I dont want to do the personal growth, I just want to click my fingers and be differentiated! Ha ha! Did you feel the same way when you read it?