I was unfaithful

[SirPrizeMe]

Max - you just kep doing what you're doing.
Keep looking good for him - he noticed! And that is the gift that keeps on giving. He is thinking about you and how you looked, while he is away from you. You know this is true.

So you just keep looking good.

The snide remark from him is just his own hurt coming out. It's ok. Don't upset yourself. It has to come out sometime. Empathy. Appologize when he says stuff like that. Apologize (but not profusely) and then just drop it, move on. Don't be defensive. Empathetic, not defensive. Got it?

All the contact from your guy sounds good. He came into the bathroom, huh! Good for you. That's a bit intimate. This is going to take longer than you would like. You just keep on looking good.

next up: what about the GAL part? Get a hobby yet?

I was thinking that i would be okay on my own as long as he was friendly and happy . Is that telling about the relationship ?

No need over-analyze yourself. What do you want? Do you want to bust this divorce? then you just keep on doing what you're doing.

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Things are ok with me, yes. Similar to you, I guess. Things move slowly. I am still hopeful we'll snatch victory from the jaws of defeat! But whatever happens, I'll be ok. I'll be seeing my kids much more, starting this weekend. Very psyched about that. I already have some good stuff planned.

ps: I don't like the title of your thread!