Mixed Signals or Just My Imagination ?

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Right now, even basic communication is hard. W misinterprets my words and inputes motives and meanings that are her own.

This has been the case through most of our marriage. Words do not mean the same thing for her that they do for me. We have addressed this in counselling numerous times. She is not in counselling now, and seems to be dealing with me/life, etc. in her native tounge, which is negative emotions.

She is making a lot of assumptions based upon these misinterpretaions. I think that words don't work for us at this point.

Sometimes the words can be clear, but she reads my 'tone' and it adds a completely differnt meaning than I intended.

I don't know if I can even talk to her sometimes and be understood.