Hi Saffie,

Nice to hear from you again. That's the whole point. She isn't "in love" with me and refuses to let OM go.

It's a no brainer of a decision to make but it is going to take enormous strength to do it. I think I will go back to England where my parents and sisters are and stay with them before I figure out what to do with my life. I came to Sydney in 1999 and met W shortly afterwards. Everything about this town is connected with her in some way and it just tears me apart.

Oh well... I just hope that the adage "time heals all wounds" is true and that I find another wonderful woman some day to love and cherish as my wife - applying all the lessons I've learned from the mistakes of this marriage.


Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
DS12
DD11
DS5

W left: 01/28/08
Discovered OM: 02/26/08
W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
EA/PA - 01/08-07/09
W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)