Hi BH,

For the child to feel whole, he needs frequent and equal interaction with both parents.

The best you can do is to work toward this. If H isn't working on it, that is HIS issue he will need to deal with.

Did you read this:

http://www.lynneforrest.com/html/the_faces_of_victim.html

Don't be the rescuer.

*HUGS*

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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