You are so right, they all just think he has done me so wrong, and he has but it doesn't mean that I stopped loving him. He is a good person, he just lost his mind. I truely believe if he had not moved on this so fast & the OW had not rushed him we wouldn't be here now. But if's, and's & but's are in the past & what it is now is real even tho I wake up sometimes & think that it's just a bad dream, no a nightmare!!! I feel like a soap opera!! In fact, I was talking to a friend of mine the other day & she said my H's life does sound like a soap opera where OW will trick them & lie to them just to get them away from their wife or husband. I feel like that has happened with my H. One of these days, just maybe.