Okay, I'm first. Like that other forum, I want a shot of Patron, please.

It sounds like he really wants to take steps toward you and he is just torn about what could be, concerning the baby.

He is saying that he hopes the child is not his, because then he can take steps back home to you and his kids. He is saying to you that if it is not his kid, it is done. Even if OW is not.

What that says is that if the baby IS his, he is going to stay with her even though he would rather be with you?

It sounds like he is saying that if the baby is NOT his, he will feel emasculated and cheated on and then doesn't want to be with her?

If the baby IS his, then he will realize that it IS her that he loves more?

WTF?!

How can he be serious? He is just goofy, suga.

Sorry. Maybe I'M confused.

Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."