Well I'm not smart enough to know how to link effectively. Here it is...http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1600386&page=1&fpart=10
As for the aforementioned strange things.... Ok if you have read Michelle's thread then you would know that there is apparent strangeness in the air.
Well, H went to his IC yesterday and after his session he called me and we were talking and he was telling me about some of what they talked about. And in passing almost he tells me that he & the C are working towards him coming back home. The C agrees with his way of handling things, ie: waiting until this baby is born before he does whatever the hell it is he is going to do. He also told me that he feels bad, but he hopes that this child turns out not to be his because it will make it easier. When I asked him how/why it that would make it easier, he replied, "Well if its not mine, then I'm done." I said that may be all well and good, but she may not be and he said, "It doesn't matter what she does or thinks...its done."
So there is weirdness all around....
Opinions?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option