For the Guy with Kids and a WW XV

[hopeful4her]

I really don't know what the relationship with OM is. It FELT like she was spending less time with him, but of course, what do I know. When I pick up the girls, I check her caller id. He calls the house usually sometime between 10 and 11. Like as if she doesn't answer and he calls again. No way of knowing what the truth is. I would think that he would be calling her cell. They are obviously in contact. Like the photo I found on the camera.

That was my plan at least for the week. Very little contact. Okay, yesterday didn't count. While I was cooking tonight, S14 called to ask D11 where the dog leash was. D11 was outside playing and I told him she'll call him back. 10 minutes later he calls me back to tell me he found it. At the same time, the wife calls my phone, but I didn't realize it. He was outside with the dog, calling me and she was inside calling me. When I hung up, I immediately had a VM. It was her saying that they found the leash and that she also wanted to let the girls know that she was home. ???? She also said that she wanted to remind them to call her tonight before bed.

"Okay. So....talk to you later."

I called her back and explained what happened. She laughed and thats when she told me that he was outside and she was inside.

"Oh, I was wondering why I had a VM as soon as I hung up. I didn't hear your call. Hold on."

I again ended our conversation by telling her to hold on and giving the girls the phone. She talked to both of them and she reminded them to call her before bed. She asked D11 if she wanted her to save some enchiladas that she was making. D11 said no



So I should NOT be showing her that I've moved on, dub? We shouldn't be agreeing that I've moved on?

But she should THINK that I have, by me not having any contact with her?

Is that the angle?

and NO ABC girls to fill the void.

Okay, now your just talking crazy