Just ignore the D stuff. If he is so adamant about that, then he will do something about it and he hasn't -- yet.
Don't even think about it and take it one day at a time.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19