Your own 180's building your happiness makes you more attractive as well. So...you're on the right track. Keep doing that while you're reading the book.
Focus on yourself, but be observant...not of her, per say, but how your interactions go. Notice the 'cycles'...without blame...as if you were an outsider. THEN...experiment with changing your part in it....and see what happens.
Wishing you all the best, sg
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sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001