JUST USED LRT-WHAT DO I DO NOW???

[Sanderika]

Hello Virginia,

I agree that H is a coward. All our friends feel that OW has him so controlled he is either brainwashed or scared to death of her. Who knows. I know he made the wrong choice and I am feeling more and more like I want him to realize that after he experiences all the misery and consequences this D will bring him.

I told him not to wait 2-3 weeks. He said he will and when I asked what 2-3 weeks will do that 38 months has not he didn't answer the question.

He called me yesterday and asked me if a forktruck boom was in or near one of our barns. I told him I was not home and I would check when I returned. He was nice when he asked and then when I called back in the evening he was mean (he was at OW house) I got "the treatment" I have learned so well over the past 38 months. Needless to say it angered me and depressed me.

I called a L today and we have a plan and a schedule. I am going to file my answer on 10/20. I am going to call the county every other day or so and see if H filed, they will tell us that here. If he files his documents at court before the 20th, I will do the same. She faxed me some papers to be filling out so on the 20th we will be ready.

Today, I went to my sisters for lunch and played with her new granddaughter and stopped for a haircut on the way home. My sone was already home for school and he greeted me out on the walk and gave me a great big hello hug. My kid is awesome, I am greatful for him every day.

Tomorrow........?

Thank you so very much for talking to me, I appreciate the advice and support.

Sanderika